So, my boyfriend revealed to me a few months ago that he has this fetish where he wears an adult diaper all day around the house. He absolutely loves it. He even said that when he pees in said diaper, it makes it feel sooo much better. I thought that it was okay that he had that. He has his own things and I have mine. Except I'm really dull and boring compared to him. I don't really have any fetishes, sexual or non-sexual.
I didn't really think much of it until he made some new friends over the Internet that apparently share the same fetish. He didn't tell me about the fetish part, just that he made some new friends. I thought that it was cool because we need some gay friends since we are literally the only gay couple that we know in our current circles of friends. But the thing was that he was hanging out with them without me. I was getting kind of jealous because he would go over there every couple of weeks or so without me. I didn't think much of it because he said that he was still getting to know them. Okay, fine. There was one point where he nearly lost contact with them because he said they were pretty boring and hadn't talked to them in a couple of months. I didn't think much of it until he started to recently hang out with them again without me.
Then last week, he revealed that the real reason he went to go hang out with them again was because he wanted to get in on the diaper fetish. That was why he didn't want me around his new friends. He felt awful for keeping this secret from me but I forgave him since I didn't think it was that big of a deal. Every time he comes back from there, he tells me that all they do is sit around playing video games, board games, eat pizza, and drink alcohol. But they just do it all in their diapers. Some of them are fully clothed while others are pantsless.
I asked him what if he and I did it one day, what would he think of that. He said that that would be the sweetest thing ever but that I don't have to do that. So I'm not really sure if I should go through with it or not.
I haven't told a single person about this because I know it's a really embarrassing fetish but I figured that if I went to GAF about this it would be okay since he doesn't go on here. I've heard about this fetish, where grown men would be in diapers and get coddled like babies from women who get paid to let them fulfill their fetishes. But he doesn't do that. He just wears the diapers and goes about his day. But I just don't know what to do. Should I just continue to let him go on about this without me? Should I join in? Should I put a stop to it? I'm not really sure if I want to go through with this but I love him so much. Plus I'm always open to trying new things. I don't know. GAF, what should I do?
TL;DR: My boyfriend has a diaper fetish (not the baby coddling kind) and I'm not sure if I should help fulfill his fetish or not.
Oh my god. You need to:
The combination of the diaper fetish and the Sonic avatar is making me have "Awesome" Fan Art flashbacks.
Only fulfill it if you actually want to. Doing it for him and not being into it is totally gonna be terrible, I guarantee it.
Also I would not have guessed the fetish, although I tried to before I clicked.
Also I would not have guessed the fetish, although I tried to before I clicked.
i CANT EVEN comprehnd why
If you love him and it doesn't bother you enough to bail out stick with it. It would be too weird for me, personally.
Flip a coin, I got no other advice.
Part of me doubts the "non sexual" part.
I don't even...
I think its weird that your boyfriend was going over there alone.
I also think its really fucking weird that he likes to wear a diaper, but I guess it doesn't really matter.
I think its weird that your boyfriend was going over there alone.
I also think its really fucking weird that he likes to wear a diaper, but I guess it doesn't really matter.
That seems like a really obnoxious fetish, not gonna lie. Harmless though I guess.
..... Huh.
I had a roommate with this fetish. Never got comfortable around him after I found out.
Your boyfriend is that dirty-diaper-loving-pikachu guy isn't he?
Imma need pics of you and him.
I wish I could piss and shit where I sit and it be socially acceptable.
But nooooo
But nooooo
Try it at least twice. You might get into it.
Trust me.
Trust me.
Well uh... Don't join in if you aren't into it. Just hope he doesn't go too deep.
It's an oddly common fetish for people to have, and it usually IS sexual. So....he might not be telling you the entire truth? If it's not for him that's cool, if it doesn't bother you, then continue on as you have before. If it does bother you, it's time to find another boyfriend :(
That's messed up...
Non-sexual you say?
So, with everyone always yammering on about sexual independence and being inclusive, everyone sure is quick to harshly judge someone's sexual fetish.
If it isn't sexual, I don't see the problem with it. It is his life and if you support him, you should be able to support the fact that he enjoys something that you don't like.
Which is wrong in my opinion. If a person has a fetish they enjoy, then let them enjoy itSo, with everyone always yammering on about sexual freedom and being inclusive, everyone sure is quick to harshly judge someone's sexual fetish.
Apparently so!
I'm glad that I'm not the only one that thinks this is weird. I thought it was just me. It sure makes him more interesting, I'll say that. Lol.
So, with everyone always yammering on about sexual independence and being inclusive, everyone sure is quick to harshly judge someone's sexual fetish.
Who is restricting their ability to do it? The OP is asking if he should be okay with dealing with a grown adult walking around in a soiled diaper all day.If it isn't sexual, I don't see the problem with it. It is his life and if you support him, you should be able to support the fact that he enjoys something that you don't like.
Which is wrong in my opinion. If a person has a fetish they enjoy, then let them enjoy it
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(09-25-2013, 03:39 AM)
ok so we're all just gonna act like everyone doesn't do this?
IMO, it might be weird but if he's not harming anyone then he can wear anything all day long for all I care. If anything BDSM seems like a weirder fetish to me because of the pain aspect (not looking to pick a fight with anyone, just saying, different strokes). This is the internet, I've seen much, much worse.
However, if you're uncomfortable with it to pretty much any degree, I don't see the relationship going anywhere unless you're willing to negotiate some serious boundaries, and depending on how much he's into it that might not be something he's willing to do.
However, if you're uncomfortable with it to pretty much any degree, I don't see the relationship going anywhere unless you're willing to negotiate some serious boundaries, and depending on how much he's into it that might not be something he's willing to do.
Yep, this basically. That I don't relate at all with the bf's fetish has nothing to do with suggesting the OP to run for his life.So, with everyone always yammering on about sexual independence and being inclusive, everyone sure is quick to harshly judge someone's sexual fetish.
Last edited by Fireblend; 09-25-2013 at 03:46 AM.
But what of the hygiene. WHAT OF THE SMELL.
If you love him, stay with it. I mean you don't have to participate if you don't want to; it doesn't really sound like the end of your relationship if you decide not to do it.
I wouldn't want to date someone who was pissed all day.
Bounce, bro.
If the OP can't accept the fact that their love partner has a weird fetish, then it isn't going to work out. I honestly just don't see the problem in it, it is not harming anyone and it seems like the lover partner is in a good moodOriginally Posted by Devolution
Who is restricting their ability to do it? The OP is asking if he should be okay with dealing with a grown adult walking around in a soiled diaper all day.
I'm really sorry, I stopped there. That's more than enough information I need. Sorry. =(So, my boyfriend revealed to me a few months ago that he has this fetish where he wears an adult diaper all day around the house. He absolutely loves it. He even said that when he pees in said diaper, it makes it feel sooo much better.
My best wishes for you and your boyfriend.
