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TheLostBigBoss
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(10-16-2017, 08:52 PM)
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im having ptsd flashbacks
Elegant Weapon
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(10-16-2017, 08:52 PM)
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See, you got to be comfortable and into it to perform, me at least. It's easy to lose a boner if you're in your head. Not sure if that was your problem, OP
platina
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(10-16-2017, 08:52 PM)

Originally Posted by Christian

You(r relationships) are already dead.

Seriously, this doesnít sound like a foursome. Just a partner swap.

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Anung
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(10-16-2017, 08:54 PM)
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Sounds like a classic case of Whisky dick.
ghst
thanks for the laugh
(10-16-2017, 08:54 PM)
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i think it's okay to not be able to get a boner on while you're watching some bloke throw one up your girlfriend.
TheLostBigBoss
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(10-16-2017, 08:54 PM)
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i was once given wise advice from a robot that I will pass on to you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qOnInTJsos
ComradeZero
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(10-16-2017, 08:55 PM)
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Got to give it to male porn stars. Idk how they do it.
Nowise10
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(10-16-2017, 08:55 PM)
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can someone give me advice on how to get into a foursome with attractive people
Jeronimo Jones
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(10-16-2017, 08:55 PM)
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Originally Posted by DiipuSurotu

Nah it would be shitty if they refused to stop.

I don't know that I would stop, in a hypothetical situation.

Besides, how are going to demand that everybody else stops without making it worse? I wouldn't invite that person to future parties.
jooey
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(10-16-2017, 08:55 PM)
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you might be better suited to a fivesome
brawly
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(10-16-2017, 08:56 PM)
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Originally Posted by Christian

You(r relationships) are already dead.

Seriously, this doesnít sound like a foursome. Just a partner swap.

Yep. Gotta at least grab the guy's ass.
Zen Aku
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(10-16-2017, 08:56 PM)
You probably just had too much to drink coupled with performance anxiety. It's normal OP. Better luck next time.
NoblesseOblige
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(10-16-2017, 08:57 PM)
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Originally Posted by t1gerjaw

They said it wasn't my fault, that it happens to everybody, but it didn't make me feel better.

This is accurate and they all sound mature and understanding about it so I'm not sure why you'd feel bad.
Ferrio
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(10-16-2017, 08:57 PM)
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Only way to recover is to make sure to fuck everyone there next time.
MisterAnderson
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(10-16-2017, 08:58 PM)
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Don't drink alcohol beforehand
vinnygambini
Why are strippers at the U.N. bad when they're great at strip clubs???
(10-16-2017, 08:58 PM)
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Thatís no foursome....
Trojita
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(10-16-2017, 08:59 PM)
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Originally Posted by ComradeZero

Got to give it to male porn stars. Idk how they do it.

Viagra and Cocaine.
Krakatoa
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(10-16-2017, 09:00 PM)
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You should have done some muff diving to get you back in the mood.

In all seriousness OP don't worry about it.
t1gerjaw
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(10-16-2017, 09:00 PM)
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Originally Posted by brawly

Yep. Gotta at least grab the guy's ass.

I kissed him.

He grabbed my balls, joking.
tbm24
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(10-16-2017, 09:01 PM)
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Originally Posted by Jeronimo Jones

I don't know that I would stop, in a hypothetical situation.

Besides, how are going to demand that everybody else stops without making it worse? I wouldn't invite that person to future parties.


Given that this is described as a 4-some and not some orgy, it'd be disrespectful not to stop if you as a group aren't all working together. Not some swinger situation where you can pick up his girlfriend and go to another room by yourselves.
crimzonflame
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(10-16-2017, 09:01 PM)
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thats not a foursome
____
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(10-16-2017, 09:02 PM)
Sucks, but it happens. Really sucks.

Especially the part trying to convince the girl that she's not the problem. In my experience, although 100% true, they ain't trying to hear that shit. So not only are you here out of a fuck (usually after talking up your skills), embarrassed and limp-dick, but then you -also- have to try your damndest to convince someone that "it's not you, it's me".

THE WORST shit.
t1gerjaw
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(10-16-2017, 09:02 PM)
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Originally Posted by Jeronimo Jones

I don't know that I would stop, in a hypothetical situation.

Besides, how are going to demand that everybody else stops without making it worse? I wouldn't invite that person to future parties.

I didn't demand anything, I just said, "Hey, I think we should stop". We fooled around a little bit after it and that was it.
NastyBook
Either. That shit that make your soul burn slow, or not.
(10-16-2017, 09:03 PM)
Yeah, that's not a foursome, fella. You're a swinger, and not a very good one.
Liljagare
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(10-16-2017, 09:03 PM)
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I always thought whiskey dick was when you kept going for hours and can't orgasm. Not that it goes semilimp? :)8
Shredderi
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(10-16-2017, 09:03 PM)
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Originally Posted by Jeronimo Jones

I don't know that I would stop, in a hypothetical situation.

Besides, how are going to demand that everybody else stops without making it worse? I wouldn't invite that person to future parties.

You sound like you don't actually understand the small but important intricate psychological dynamics that goes into something like this. Trust, insecurities etc. are all very delicate matters in scenarios like this. It's important that no one has to do or witness something that makes them uncomfortable because those things can leave a person with jealousy and insecurities that they bottle up that further complicate things in the long run.
Jeronimo Jones
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(10-16-2017, 09:04 PM)
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Originally Posted by tbm24

Given that this is described as a 4-some and not some orgy, it'd be disrespectful not to stop if you as a group aren't all working together. Not some swinger situation where you can pick up his girlfriend and go to another room by yourselves.

It was initially described as a foursome but sounds more like they swapped partners, what's the etiquette for that? Do you own your partner's future potential orgasms?

I'm half-joking here.
Vault Dweller 111
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(10-16-2017, 09:04 PM)
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This just sounds like a partner swap where you fuck right next to eachother. I have no idea why that would appeal to anyone, but not my scene I guess.


You shouldn't have made them stop.
Rentahamster
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(10-16-2017, 09:04 PM)
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You have other options to get her off if ya dick no work, ya know.
Shredderi
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(10-16-2017, 09:06 PM)
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Originally Posted by Vault Dweller 111

This just sounds like a partner swap where you fuck right next to eachother. I have no idea why that would appeal to anyone, but not my scene I guess.


You shouldn't have made them stop.

If it made him uncomfortable he totally should have.
Monkeyball
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(10-16-2017, 09:06 PM)
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I just can't picture ever wanting another dude to bang my girl.
DiipuSurotu
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(10-16-2017, 09:06 PM)
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Originally Posted by Monkeyball

I just can't picture ever wanting another dude to bang my girl.

What about the you banging another girl part? It's a trade-off
Mammoth Jones
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(10-16-2017, 09:06 PM)
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You got whiskey-dick. It happens. Don't drink next time and enjoy it.

Personally I never could enjoy myself in those situations. Too much worry about STD's but good luck!
TaterTots
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(10-16-2017, 09:07 PM)
Should of let the 3 of them fool about while you tried to get your little ding a ling up and join in later.
LordKasual
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(10-16-2017, 09:07 PM)
You drank too much.
Trey
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(10-16-2017, 09:07 PM)

Originally Posted by ComradeZero

Got to give it to male porn stars. Idk how they do it.

Drugs and a lot of editing.
Shredderi
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(10-16-2017, 09:08 PM)
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Originally Posted by Trey

Drugs and a lot of editing.

Yeah, it's no easy job I hear.
Acyl
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(10-16-2017, 09:08 PM)
Hell, I'm just surprised the other couple was so cool about it and this didn't turn into a nightmare scenario where they decide to ignore him and they end up having having a threesome.
Wishmaster92
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(10-16-2017, 09:10 PM)
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OP to dick:

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, well I guess I'm a cuck.

In all seriousness nothing good ever comes out of this, OP.
Shredderi
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(10-16-2017, 09:10 PM)
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Originally Posted by Acyl

Hell, I'm just surprised the other couple was so cool about it and this didn't turn into a nightmare scenario where they decide to ignore him and they end up having having a threesome.

It would have been a lot more surprising if they just continued without OP's permission. Pretty much grounds for breaking up. I've never heard of that happening but I've heard a lot of stories like OP's.
CliqWriter
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(10-16-2017, 09:10 PM)
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Gonna suggest something different then most the posts here, although whiskey dick is a probable choice.

Emotions man. They matter. Sometimes if you arenít emotionally set with the person or situations to have sex your body knows. Even if there is a 10/10 standing in front of you, sometimes your body just wonít do the trick. Sounds like your body was ready to go for a minute (because she was attractive), then your brain caught up and was like, Iím not feeling this... bailout.
Poor GRIMES
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(10-16-2017, 09:10 PM)

Originally Posted by Vault Dweller 111

This just sounds like a partner swap where you fuck right next to eachother. I have no idea why that would appeal to anyone, but not my scene I guess.


You shouldn't have made them stop.

Lol? If youíre uncomfortable at any point during sex, and your significant other is right there participating in consensual groupsex, then you should absolutely tell everyone involved to stop.
BraXzy
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(10-16-2017, 09:11 PM)
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Originally Posted by t1gerjaw

It's kind of hard

You weren't wrong.
HawksWinStanley
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(10-16-2017, 09:11 PM)
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I'm sure your buddy enjoyed the blue balls.
Exile20
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(10-16-2017, 09:13 PM)
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Originally Posted by Nickle

Pretty shitty to make them stop out of "fairness".

Did he really tell them to stop because it wasn't fair? What?
Shredderi
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(10-16-2017, 09:13 PM)
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Originally Posted by Exile20

Did he really tell them to stop because it wasn't fair? What?

No.
Par Score
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(10-16-2017, 09:13 PM)
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Drink less.

Also, be willing to enter into sexual situations where the number one outcome is not you getting off. Be willing to watch. Be willing to have fun.

On the other hand, good on you for making it clear you weren't comfortable when you did. Never feel guilty about that. Sex should be a consensual, positive thing.
Elegant Weapon
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(10-16-2017, 09:14 PM)
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Originally Posted by HawksWinStanley

I'm sure your buddy enjoyed the blue balls.

If nothing else, the other guy's girl should have taken care of him in that situation
Des0lar
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(10-16-2017, 09:14 PM)
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Originally Posted by Nickle

Pretty shitty to make them stop out of "fairness".

Nah, in these group situations that's actually the best thing you can do.
chugen
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(10-16-2017, 09:15 PM)
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Originally Posted by Shredderi

No.

I decided that we all should stop since I was not having fun and I didn't think it was fair.

yes?

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